Sometimes, or most of the times, we can turn ourselves into someone who has nothing to do with our own personality. It could be a beautiful lover, the most unpleasant person in the world, or just adapt an attitude to pretend being someone that we are not. We can have lots of reasons for doing this, in fact we do it all the time but we (almost) never admit it . But the most common reason is because we want to make the other person believe that actually we have something in common, and that's what unites us. It's being fake. It's the necessity to feel connected.
When we have a real conection with a person, we adapt some attitudes from the other to increase that feeling.
Its not a bad thing to do, as long as we aren't doing something that we dont want.It's just to put ourselves on his (or her) shoes.But it turns out that those shoes are a bigger size than ours, and in time that generates blisters and pain..We love his naked and blistered feet (blistered from another experience from the past), or feeling the ground that he walks. But then we try to take off those shoes, and put our own back. So the person can see now that our feet are smaller and hurt. So the question comes to mind: Are you going to like my real feet? Would you like to walk beside me and accept my little and tiny shoes? 
Please, lets walk together and heal.


(no se si esta muy bien redactado, pero creo que algo se logra entender)